Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Re: [epilepsy] Re:epilepsy and sex drive

 

oh o.k., it really isn't worth while to have any sex or masturbation then.
Danny

 

--- On Tue, 9/29/09, Robert Shaffer <robert_shaffer51@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Robert Shaffer <robert_shaffer51@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Re:epilepsy and sex drive
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 7:04 PM

Danny:

It isn't sex that triggers your seizures.  Most likely, it is the stress during sex that is the trigger.  I have had similar occurrences.  Hope this helps! ;)

--- On Tue, 9/29/09, Danny Newell <bigboy46@sbcglobal.net> wrote:

From: Danny Newell <bigboy46@sbcglobal.net>
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Re:epilepsy and sex drive
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 3:46 PM

   
                  like i said is trying to have any sexual activity usually it triggers a siezure to come on and i don't have much of a choice. it is one of those things that seem to happen to me. there must be some other members in this group that have the same problem as me. people need to understand that it can happen to them most likely.

Danny

 

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Re: [epilepsy] Re:epilepsy and sex drive

 

it just a situation that i do have a very strong sex drive. when i was a teen i couldn't control myself from constant masturbation. i had a head injury about 20 years ago and that is why i have seizures.
Danny

 

--- On Wed, 9/30/09, Jason <tiscione@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Jason <tiscione@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Re:epilepsy and sex drive
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 7:48 AM

This is quite a believable trigger although I've never heard of this
happening before. I forget if you said dirty magazines are enough.

I wonder what would happen if you had this treated surgically... you might
wake up unable to engage your trigger at all?

Maybe I've told this story before, but I read about some woman born with
anhedonia (inability to experience pleasure) so they implanted a wire
running from some pacemaker or stimulator to a point behind the
orbitorfrontal complex, behind the eyes. That gave her unsatisfiable
nymphomania which sounds great, especially for someone who grew up with an
inability to experience pleasure, but after a few months of intense sexual
activity she was exhausted and had them take the thing out.

Jason

On Tue, Sep 29, 2009 at 12:46 PM, Danny Newell <bigboy46@sbcglobal.net>wrote:

> like i said is trying to have any sexual activity usually it triggers a
> siezure to come on and i don't have much of a choice. it is one of those
> things that seem to happen to me. there must be some other members in this
> group that have the same problem as me. people need to understand that it
> can happen to them most likely.
> Danny
>

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[fast5] Bingeing Challenge

 


My challenge with it for now is the same as before...although I'm not
hungry because I'm too consumed in my day, when I finally do sit down
to eat, I eat a huge amount. I actually thought about just eating a
dinner out at a place like Herbivore, which has a really reasonably
sized small salad. Large enough for a meal, but without the huge slab
of cheese I would inevitably add to mine!

I figured if I did that for a couple of weeks or so, it might be
expensive, but would get me in the habit of eating a regular portion
for dinner, instead of a 2,000 calorie-load meal.

thoughts? Or should I just accept the minor bingeing for what is and
know that it will equalize over time?

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Re: [fast5] Just started!

 

I'd second this. Your body has a very fine-tuned ability to know when
it is "starving" and it isn't based on numbers. If your body is
hauling around 50 lbs of fat, for example, it might make a lot of
sense that your appestat says "hey, there is WAY TOO MUCH FAT here,
let's not eat so much". Under those circumstances, it's highly
unlikely that some "starvation mode" circuit is going to kick in.

However, one thing that can throw off the appestat is when you are
eating low-nutrient food. There are some nutrients that a human body
somehow "looks for", and if they are absent, it will prompt hunger to
get you to find those nutrients. I think protein is known to be one of
those: and it needs to be whole protein. Likely fish oil is another,
and the minerals (cal/mag/zinc). Certain fibers have a great effect on
the appestat too.

So, if you are making good food choices ... good vegies, fish, fruit
... you might find that you really don't care to eat so many
"calories" ... your body isn't looking for calories, because it knows
you have plenty stored. In which case 500 calories, for you, for that
day, might be just fine.

The way to tell is by how you feel *the next day*. If you are starving
way before your window, then what you are doing isn't working as well
as you'd like, and it's time to experiment. You'll find some meals
work really well to keep you full the next day. Some don't work so
well. On this group, I'd say that more people have issues with
high-starch/high-sugar meals, while high protein meals tend to "stick"
better. I've found good results with fibers (right now I'm into
konjac) too.

Food allergies are another issue: if you eat a food you are allergic
to, (gluten/casein are the poster children) then it is very likely
you'll feel hyper-hungry the next day. Dunno why this is, but a number
of people have reported it.

On Wed, Sep 30, 2009 at 2:33 PM, Sandi <gonnafly@verizon.net> wrote:
> Remember the whole idea of this is to train your body to use its 'fat
> stores' for fuel.  You certainly should not be trying to cram in enough
> food/calories in your window to act as fuel to get you through the 19 hours
> "just in case".
>
> Another benefit of this WOE is you get to avoid that bloated feeling that
> often comes from eating, eating and eating some more because that is what we
> have always been told to do.  I have found that I am so much more in tune
> with my body's actual needs with this plan.  Do not eat "just because".
> Enjoy the empty feeling that occurs at the end of the 19 hrs.
>
> Also 500 calories is just a number that another poster thought they were
> consuming.  It is definitely NOT what you are trying to get to.  Slow down
> and listen to your body and feel what it is telling you.  It does not like
> to feel bloated and it does like to have a rest from all the digestive
> processing that 6 meals a day requires.  Relax and don't overthink it.
>
> Sandi
>
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> From: "im4p5yc0" <sharkbait88@gmail.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 12:46 PM
> To: <fast5@yahoogroups.com>
> Subject: [fast5] Just started!
>
> binge eat the entire time.  so for example, today during a 3 hour time slot,
> i ate about 1600 calories, and now i feel extremely bloated and like my
> stomach is going to explode.
>
>  i am worried that i won't be getting enough calories to sustain my body,
> which is why i end up over eating.
>
> i do not  understand how 500 calories (as some posts have mentioned) will be
> enough to sustain my body for 19 hours following.
>
>  fast five has been very successful in reducing my hunger, as i am not even
> hungry when my window
>> opens up, but i feed myself because i am afraid that i will become weak
>> and have no energy for the rest of the day>
>
>
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[fast5] starting with alot to accomplish

 

I'm so happy I came across the fast-5 information on the internet. Today was my first day of the adjustment phase. This sounds really easy and stress free. No deprivation when you get to eat. I'm a big girl but I still love fruits and vegetables, just not a fan of whole grains yet. I'm trying to teach myself to like them. I've lost weight before when I was a teenager, I grew up as a fat kid and when I realized how fat I was I starved myself to get down to a healthy weight losing 130 pounds. I gained it back in a few years when I had an abusive fiance. Lost half of it again after getting out of the situation without trying to diet. Then I gained it back and then some going through some hard to deal with living conditions while working at a fast food resturant. They gave me all the free food I could ever want because they were trying to bribe me into management. Now I'm out of that difficult situation and back where I should be but the weight is extra stubborn this time. I feel like I have that metabolic syndrome X or something. It makes sense in the book where it describes your body running on glucose or ketones, maybe mine is on a glucose kick 24/7. I've tried so many diets this time and I haven't had much success, its so hard to stick to those eat mini meals and snacks several times a day kind of diet. Those just make me extra hungry because I never get to fill up and they make for some gross breath because you eat so often, really who is going to brush thier teeth 6 times a day? Its very inconvenient to have to eat that often. I don't want to stop work several times to eat a snack. I read the fast-5 online book and it really makes sense. Maybe thats why I did lose weight all those other times without realizing that it was because I didn't always eat, giving my body a chance to use up fat stores. I'm really excited about starting this, I'm more likely to cook something healthful because its only once a day and I'll look forward to eating. The way I feel doesn't match the way I look. I don't recognize what I see in the mirror or photographs. My goal is to get back into the wardrobe I still have out in the shed from the first time I lost weight. I would love to be 165-175 pounds, even just under 200 would make me happy. I'm sure I'll have the weight of extra skin by time I get there. Right now I'm 355 pounds and only 5 feet 8 inches tall. I can still run, climb, swim, ski, and work as hard as other people (lol and i did actually ski at 295 pounds all day without falling down, amazing! lol! I don't want to stay like this because it'll get worse as I get older, I'm only 23 now so I have youth helping me be more active. I feel like I'm wasting time being big, I could be dating, married, etc but i look so unapproachable like I don't care and don't take care of myself, like I 'let myself go' being so big. So I don't blame any guy for not wanting to go out with me LOL. I'm really fun to be with but I need to get back to looking approachable before anyone would ever know. Even if it took me 5 years to lose the weight I would be thrilled, life doesn't stop because of problems, if it did what fun would that be. I'm planning to have fun with this weight loss, gonna take before and after pics and monthly weigh ins. I liked that picture in the book with the guy complaining about his knees hurting and he has a fridge strapped to his back. I feel like i have two fridges strapped to my back, my feet feel like I'm walking on hot coals at the end of a long work day (I have to stand/walk on concrete all day). I have 200 pounds to lose according to the chart in the book but will be happy with 180 pounds lost. I refuse to give up and get gastric bypass surgery. I've only failed when I give up trying, I've had to fight weight my whole life and will not give up, and might as well have fun while i'm at it. wish me luck! I'll update from time to time.

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[epilepsy] Re: EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

 

I must agree with all of you. My meds at some points have been so sedating that at times I could barely remember a sentence I had just read. At the same time, I know my seizures are in a part of my brain which is slowly taking away memories. I have come to force myself to just come to terms. If I have to ask, "What is your name again?", three or four times...I don't even feel I need to explain myself more than once or just saying hey I have bad memory.

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Re: [epilepsy] EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

 

Thank you, I so agree  it is hard to explain to other's the reason why my thinking an memory is not the greatest.  Trying to explain this to my boyfriend who is a lab technician he does not seem to understand why I have difficulty 'I tend to feel that I am not smart enough for him, but I don't let it get me down I keep reminding him.
DonnaS-NH

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From: Millie Myers <mylmy@gogreencroft.net>
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 11:11:09 PM
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

 
Donna,
Since our meds slow down our brains so we don't have a sz-- I consider them
a tranquilizer. So it makes sense to me that I move slower, work and think
slower.

And after a sz we are like in a fog for a while. My brain got shook up and
has to have time to settle down

That is the way I explain it.

Millie

----- Original Message -----
From: "DonnaM" <moon_stargzr42@ yahoo.com>
To: <epilepsy@yahoogroup s.com>
Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 10:02 PM
Subject: [epilepsy] EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

>I wonder how does one with EP/seizures explain to others their symptoms,
>types of seizures, the effects on how one feels after a seizure. I try
>explaining to others my symptoms etc and yet they don't seem to react with
>interest or know how to react I tend to feel at times that I am not smart
>enough, they don't seem to understand that when someone has a seizure it
>may affect our memory, thinking. That when I have a seizure no matter how
>small I can't thing quickly, solve problems/issues quickly, tend to forget
>easily.
> DonnaS-NH
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Re: [epilepsy] EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

 

Donna,
Since our meds slow down our brains so we don't have a sz-- I consider them
a tranquilizer. So it makes sense to me that I move slower, work and think
slower.

And after a sz we are like in a fog for a while. My brain got shook up and
has to have time to settle down

That is the way I explain it.

Millie

----- Original Message -----
From: "DonnaM" <moon_stargzr42@yahoo.com>
To: <epilepsy@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 10:02 PM
Subject: [epilepsy] EP/Seizures, How does one explain to others?

>I wonder how does one with EP/seizures explain to others their symptoms,
>types of seizures, the effects on how one feels after a seizure. I try
>explaining to others my symptoms etc and yet they don't seem to react with
>interest or know how to react I tend to feel at times that I am not smart
>enough, they don't seem to understand that when someone has a seizure it
>may affect our memory, thinking. That when I have a seizure no matter how
>small I can't thing quickly, solve problems/issues quickly, tend to forget
>easily.
> DonnaS-NH
>
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[epilepsy] I'm selling my car

 

Hi everybody,

I have been driving for most of the 47 years that I have had EP-- except for 2 1/2 years at different times that
I had szs.

I decided to sell my 15 year old car this year because I am prone to falling. We have a lot of snow here
in the winter. The retirement center clears behind our cars but not between or on top of the car. My 2
girls who live in town have wanted me to quit driving for about 4 or 5 years. They are afraid that I will
fall between the cars and no one will see me. Last year I was still working as a home health aid. They
would come the mornings I was to work and clear where I was to walk and the top of the car. I decided
to not put them thru that again this year.

We have a shuttle here that takes you places on the campus and to Dr.s appointments. We also have
a bus that goes to grocery stores every Tues and Thurs. There is a town bus that I can use if I wish but
I would have to walk quite a ways to catch it. I also have a 1/2 price taxi card that I have never used.
Of course you have to call and schedule a ride -- which I am not crazy about .

I will have to change the way I use my money. I usually paid for insurance and for fixing the car .Now
I will have to carry smalll bills. I figured that I put $2,500 in fixing my car the last 4 years. that is not
counting gas, insurance and license.

For the last 2 weeks I have been getting ready for this. I had the car washed, got large groceries that
would be hard to carry on the bus,went thru all my clothes ant took a bunch to Good Will and drove
past differnent places we lived and collected memories. A man here on campus is buying my car.
I didn't have to advertise it.

So I am with a lot of your who are not driving. I have also purchased a walker with a seat. that has
helped me a lot with my walking; I haven't fallen since I got it. I want to keep on walking and strengthen
my legs.

Millie

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