although i have not fully read the letter i would like to say first that i hope you will stay.now may i introduce the idea that i have found that when reading something we can at times misinterperit certain words because the original writer means it a certain way.what i mean is that when a word is pronounced a certain way it can actually at times give it a certain meaning.when reading what is written it can be difficult to (at times) know how it was pronounced in the writers mind. bottom line is that i want to say that i care about you and all of our friends with epilepsy here. p.s. i got a birthday in 7 days...i want a present from all of ya, lol
--- On Sun, 12/5/10, Millie Myers <mylmy@gogreencroft.net> wrote:
From: Millie Myers <mylmy@gogreencroft.net>
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Liz, Steve and Jewl --Debbie
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, December 5, 2010, 10:06 PM
Debbie,
I just reread Liz's letter. She sounds caring to me-- not attacking.
Millie
----- Original Message -----
From: yellowroses1950
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Cc: wallja99@fightfor.org
Sent: Sunday, December 05, 2010 5:53 PM
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Liz, Steve and Jewl
Liz ~ you may be a moderator here, but that does not give you permission to try another way to attack me. You can make suggestions but not with a bully undertone. I don't think you are really apologizing to me at all. I think you are very angry with my "behaviors". I am not a thrill seeking addict or out to kill anyone and here is the murder word again you keep throwing at me. I take objection to this !!
I explained in a lengthy email to Elizabeth what I have been doing to not drive and yet you still bully me. I want to be sure the owner of this group understands what is happening here. I have given it a second try in this group to explain what I am going thru. It appears you want me to leave. I can't believe I am even typing this crap out. I am brand new here and already I'm being attacked by you.
If I am to continue here, I am asking you not to respond to my emails .
Debbie
----- Original Message -----
From: Liz Welker
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sunday, December 05, 2010 5:39 PM
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Liz, Steve and Jewl
Debbie, I apologize--again--for "yelling," but it's so important that you understand that you must stop driving until you stop having auras, plain and simple. I actually am a moderator here, but I am telling you this because this is dangerous behavior that could get someone seriously hurt or even killed, and if that is the case, you can be charged with manslaughter.
I care about you, and that's why I think it's so important to make sure you understand how much trouble you can get into for driving during an aura. Please seek help to get control right away, and stay off the road until you do.
LIZ
--- On Sun, 12/5/10, yellowroses1950 <yellowroses1950@verizon.net> wrote:
From: yellowroses1950 <yellowroses1950@verizon.net>
Subject: [epilepsy] Liz, Steve and Jewl
To: "Debbie" <epilepsy@yahoogroups.com>
Cc: wallja99@fightfor.org
Date: Sunday, December 5, 2010, 3:47 PM
This message is directed at Liz and Steve ~
I don't know what purpose it serves to yell at a new member of this group the way both of you did to me. I haven't given you all the details yet. I'm just in the get to know you stage. I came away shaking after reading what you said to me.
I need to know if this is how you treat all members here, is this typical behavior? If so, I will need to unsub. I already see people stepping on egg shells on certain topics around certain members and I wonder where the owner is in all of this. Does she endorse this type of behavior?
Are you, Steve and Liz, both moderators here, owners, etc?
I have alot of information to share about myself but am hesitant to share for fear of being yelled at more. Does the owner of this group allow yelling like this?
Until you learn all the facts about a member, perhaps it's best to step back and give the new member some wiggle room before you blast him/her.
Now, I need a word from the group owner (Jewl) before I proceed here.
Debbie
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