[epilepsy] Re: it keeps going and going...

 

She had told me in the past "I know about seizures." when I confronted her about her letter of not wanting to renew my lease and told her she didn't have a clue.

I think anybody would be upset if a person's first action is to remove you instead of even ask you about them. To be told "You know when they are going to happen. Why didn't you unlock the door?" was upsetting. I was afraid to go in the hall because they don't want me there. Then, I almost died inside my apartment.

The man even told me that he had a relative with seizures; if so, their behaviour was uncalled for. The man said that he wouldn't behave as I said he would...but they DID it, for crying out loud. It's like they are messing with my mind and memory. Then, in a mocking tone, he said that "You're still here, so forget about it." I was accused of putting THEM through something tough.

You're right about stress from how they act could contribute to problems. My last one was on the 31st of January, the first time I had two in a month for a long time.

I don't like being accused of knowing what I am doing or accusations of harassment. They don't understand that their behaviour is not how a professional should be.

Maybe I'm too sensitive, but it seemed like I've upset you somehow. I just wanted to express my difficulty that hasn't ended. I thought that was what I could do here, too. I didn't think I was doing wrong.

--- In epilepsy@yahoogroups.com, "Millie Myers" <mylmy@...> wrote:
>
> FakeMcGyer,
>
> You are always saying they don't understand. Do you try to explain
> how EP works for you? If they have had no experience with EP --
> they don't know. And who can tell them better than you?
>
> I think you would need to do it in a calm voice and when you aren't
> angry. I hear that you feel that you aren't being treated fairly -- but
> we who have the szs can be teachers-- you know.
>
> Would you consider writing down what you would say to them --
> and may be send it to them? Being under the stress you are feeling
> now does you no good and can bring on szs. You don't need that.
>
> Being angry only hurts you-- not them.
>
> Millie

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