Sam,
I'm sorry about your marriage. I also understand that
you want your family.
I suggest that you learn to live by yourself for awhile.
I understand that you want someone with you -- but you
will find someone sooner if you have lived by yourself
for a while.
Millie
----- Original Message -----
From: Jamie
To: epilepsy@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, June 29, 2011 10:15 AM
Subject: [epilepsy] Re: Complex Partials/First Post
Sam,
I am so sorry that things didn't work out wih you and your wife. Where do you live now? If you get a divorce then she can't control you so much. Do you share health insurance? I would say focus on taking care of yourself and your kids for now. I am so glad that your episodes are getting better and good luck with your carrer! Do you have any support groups in your area?
Jamie (mom of Megan age 10)
--- In epilepsy@yahoogroups.com, "Samiam" <ambimind65@...> wrote:
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> There are two words in your piece that are breaking my uncontrolled seizure head and heart. "Loved One". I have been married 10 years and over that time had gone through a terrible phase of 8-12 attacks a day and a coma for three days, hospital overnights numerous times over 2 years. I could not do my fair share as a husband and father and so anger and frustration continued to rise in my wife. Now, if there is ever an argument about anything, my stress on her in the past, my memory issues on all these meds, wiping my puke, cleaning up my urine... and my inability to fully care for out two year and 8 year old children alone. She kicked me out, I visit almost every day to clean, walk the dog, and watch the children only inside the house and when I can feel that my brain is not at risk for enough hours for her to return. If she gets mad about something then I can't visit unless she calls asking for help. My dream of becoming a family under one roof is lost and she has wanted a divorce for almost 3 years now. I need to start a new life with a partner in love but the courage and knowledge of how to find her is not good, and I can't stop thinking if it is better for my son and daughter to keep waiting. I am 46, physically active and the attacks are only 2 or 3 a month now. I am returning to the work field and am producing my second Documentary, this one being on my Epilepsy Group here in Boulder CO. I wish I could take my 8yr old son biking and hiking now that we live near mountains but the wife/mother is strong fisted, even if I find a group. Looking for Love. SamJr.
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> --- In epilepsy@yahoogroups.com, Georgia Lundie <gklundie@> wrote:
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