Dannel,
I'm living alone because I don't drive in order to date and meet attractive women to decide and have one move into my house. Before '98 when I quit driving I may have totaled a few/all of my cars, but if they could be repaired I had no problem dating or visiting friends etc.. But now, most friends aren't there any longer. My best friend is a female co-worker who previously had uncontrolled epilepsy until brain surgery. In my case mine has never been controlled even with an unsuccessful Left temporal lobotomy which only was able to produce my verbal-memory loss. There was no reduction in seizures though. I remember when I first met her a few years ago and not knowing that she is married, I thought it would might become sexual. But it's aways allot of talking mostly of my possible seizures and her looking at my pants zipper. She was real lucky having her surgery at Johns Hopkins Hospital, where I've either been getting free care or getting paid for
my visits since 6/08.
--- On Sat, 7/25/09, Danny Newell <bigboy46@sbcglobal.
From: Danny Newell <bigboy46@sbcglobal.
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Matthew Ford
To: epilepsy@yahoogroup
Date: Saturday, July 25, 2009, 6:38 PM
Matthew,
i understand when you and i are disabled they don't want us to have a sexual relationship with a woman. our parents think since we are disabled we don't have a right to have sex with a woman. right now since i live alone it has made it difficult to find a woman because of my disability. since i have seizures a lot of women will not let me have sex with them because they are afraid i will end up having a seizure while having sexual activity. i know here in california the courts usually grants the parent the right to sterilize their disabled children. that is wrong, they should not let the parents do something against the childrens will.
--- On Fri, 7/24/09, Matthew Ford <matthewford@ shaw.ca> wrote:
From: Matthew Ford <matthewford@ shaw.ca>
Subject: [epilepsy] Re: Suicide
To: epilepsy@yahoogroup s.com
Date: Friday, July 24, 2009, 3:53 PM
I've had similar thoughts over suicide.
All my life, people have told me to stay out of the way.
I was removed from school and put with others with disabilities.
It's like I can't be around normal people.
People with disabilities were my only friends.
When I found a girlfriend who also had epilepsy,
I was told two wrongs don't make a right, and got banned from seeing her.
It's like... Any sign of being normal is not allowed.
So why am I here?
Matthew
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