When I was married to my first husband life was he-- . He would leave me alone in stores whenever I would have a siezure.He and I worked at the same place and one day I had a huge one that I don't remember a thing but my pants were wet due to loss of bladder control and he wouldn't take me home to change clothes even though the foreman said he could. He dropped me off to have my 2cd child alone (c-section.)
But now my new husband is the best! He is my rock! My eveything! He stays with me and talks to me during my siezures and He takes me and stays with me during dr. appointments and visit during hosp. stays. God blessed me when he gave me a chance to be online the nite I met David! He even treats my children better then their own father and that is whatthe boys have said not me.
Trish (jiminycricketblue)
--- On Thu, 6/18/09, mylmy@bnin.net <mylmy@bnin.net> wrote:
From: mylmy@bnin.net <mylmy@bnin.net>
Subject: Re: [epilepsy] Re: Relationships and Epilepsy
To: epilepsy@yahoogroup
Date: Thursday, June 18, 2009, 10:47 PM
While I was married my husband was always there then he was called
by my daughters. At that time I had grand mal szs and was out. I
usually woke up in bed where he had carried me.
Millie
> My mom has a seizure disorder and has been married to the same amn my dad
> for almost 39 years now. She did not start having seizures until about
> the age of 25. They got married at 18 and had 2 kids prior to all this
> starting. When she was hospitalized for this conditin he was at her bed
> side and at every doctors appt to this day. When she has a break through
> seizure he holds her hand and talks her through it. It is really scary
> because they are like 2 peas in a pod and do things for each other that
> nobody else would do for anyone. But I am veryglad that she has my dad
> and he has my mom. But good luck to you and your freind. There is hope
> and you may need to approach the idea a diffrent way. Not only do I have
> a momwith this condition but also my daughter along with other conditions
> but my grandmother also had a seizure disorder before she died and her
> husband divorced her and she moved out with us.
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> --- On Thu, 6/18/09, roebuckavery <roebuckavery@ yahoo.com> wrote:
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> From: roebuckavery <roebuckavery@ yahoo.com>
> Subject: [epilepsy] Re: Relationships and Epilepsy
> To: epilepsy@yahoogroup s.com
> Date: Thursday, June 18, 2009, 8:26 PM
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> Sorry Nancy,
> My name is Avery, thanks for your comment it has been a real stressful day
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> --- In epilepsy@yahoogroup s.com, Nancy Livesay <nlivesay1801@ ...> wrote:
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>> what is your name? when I was young my sisters and brothers always told
>> me I was stuiped. I grow up thinking I was. when I met my boyfriend of
>> 25 years he really got mad because I always said I was stupied. He
>> showed me in many ways that I was not . He talked me in to going to
>> colleg and I found out that I was not. he brought me a long ways. Nancy
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>> From: roebuckavery <roebuckavery@ ...>
>> To: epilepsy@yahoogroup s.com
>> Sent: Thursday, June 18, 2009 6:42:34 PM
>> Subject: [epilepsy] Relationships and Epilepsy
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>> First I would like to share with you guys that I am not an epileptic
>> however,I am in full support of the people like you that have this
>> condition and have had your ups and downs with it. My questions is how
>> many of you are married or in serious committed relationships and also
>> how do you keep your relationship or marriage strong along with dealing
>> with you or your spouses epilepsy. This is very important to me because
>> I met a wonderful guy online who has epilepsy and we tried to bond and
>> see if we could get closer and have a relationship. I thought that we
>> would be a regular couple like everyone else "we" just have this
>> condition called epilepsy that we have to deal with from time to
>> time.Unfortunately he had led a very sheltered and dominate life from
>> his parents and family and because he has had it since birth (we are
>> both in our 50's) he was raised as if he was retarded always told what
>> he could'nt do no encouragement or affection. I saw him in a
>> totally different light he is handsome, very intelligent, and very handy
>> around the house. His seizures are very well under control his problem
>> is the emotional effects of his raisings. I love him dearly and we are
>> still best friends and I miss what we had. But he saw my encouragement
>> as being bossy and pushy because I wanted him to know there's a whole
>> world out there that he's letting get by him without trying to shed all
>> the hurts and pains from his childhood. Has anyone been through this and
>> how did you deal with it? I've tried to let go of him but can't he will
>> always be very special to me forever. All comments welcome.
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